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The best gift ever!

12/28/2014

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Joy-filled greetings!

As you may recall from my last newsletter, I found a renewed sense of meaning and joy in the holiday and solstice season; and I've managed to maintain it, too!

As I'm writing this, I've just come home from yet another food errand. With so many special dinners and my son home visiting from college, there has been a lot of shopping!

I could have been driving around tensed up and tired, right? You know what I'm talking about. But instead, I was reflecting on the warm, friendly conversations I struck up with strangers in the stores, and how, at our core, we're all good and all the same. Everyone just wants love and to feel good.


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As I was leaving the farm near our home to buy our farm fresh, raw milk and baked bread, I was thinking about how much I appreciate and really love the man who owns and is so committed to that farm and its cows.

And that led me to reflect on all the beautiful, amazing people in my life that I admire and enjoy so much. My family, my friends, my coaching clients and my various group and class participants. They all have such huge hearts and huge desires; and I am so grateful to be a part of their lives.

Then there's the woman with the huge, friendly smile who greets me at the bank every time; and the super friendly people who work and help me at Whole Foods. I could go on; but you get the point. It's the people in my life that fill me up with the best of feelings, and are my greatest gift.

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So if you're reading this, then that also means you. YOU allow me to fulfill my life's purpose and feel fulfilled at the end of each day. YOU keep my faith in the goodness of mankind as I hear the intimate details and desires of your life. YOU fill my heart with love and joy; and I thank you, thank you, thank you.

It's so easy to say, “Of course I appreciate the people in my life!” But how often do you really take the time to sink into those thoughts and really feel that love and appreciation until you're filled up with good feelings that can take you through the day?


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As you reflect on your New Year and all that you've accomplished, acquired, and all that you did, I encourage you to include the most important part of it all – the people in your life; and let your heart fill up as much as it can. Go beyond what we typically call good or best friends. Who are all the people in your daily life who contribute to it in positive ways? It wouldn't be the same without them.

I hope you've been having a wonderful holiday season; and my heartfelt wishes to you for a New Year filled with inner peace, love, ease and joy, with plenty of laughter and fun! I hope you'll join me in some of what I have planned for you to support you in creating and living your best life and being your best self!

Supporting you in greater ease and joy, with a warm heart,

Ann


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How I Beat the Grinch

12/9/2014

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Happy holiday season and solstice to you!

This time of year can bring so much love and joy; and, for some, conflicted feelings and stress of varying sorts.  Maybe you experience a mix of it all.

When my sons were younger, our holiday season was filled with wonderful traditions we created and enjoyed together.  We made and used homemade ornaments, made presents for their friends, and baked cookies for neighbors and went around delivering them with a song.  It was all about celebrating and spreading love and joy, and sharing in the abundance of our life.
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A few years ago, however, in their late teens, they began to see only negative aspects of the season, seeing it as overly commercial and materialistic with a lack of real meaning.  Their childhood lenses had been lost; and they no longer wanted us to celebrate.  Didn't even want gifts!

My claims defending the holiday were futile, and I succumbed to their wishes.  But it left a big hole for me each year, feeling lost amidst all the holiday energy everywhere around me. 

In reflection, I can see now that I sacrificed something important to me,
blaming their desires for my emptiness, rather than creating some things I could still do.  Does this happen to you in any way?  How much do you go along with "whatever", instead of using your power to be a deliberate creator?  (If not during the holidays, perhaps in other contexts?)

This year, feeling a bit confused, I took some time to reflect deeply on what I truly care about regarding the season, and even did some research.  It was so helpful!
I did it to reconnect to the deeper meanings possible that I can relate to and to feel really good about participating in.  I highly recommend the website:
https://www.circlesanctuary.org/index.php/celebrating-the-seasons/celebrating-winter-solstice


Here are some conclusions I came to.  Perhaps you'll find them useful, too, in some way.

  • I really believe in the increased power of the collective.  It's palpable when we meditate together in my guided meditation classes. So, for me, when so much of the planet this time of year is focused on love, and joy, and freely giving, and abundance, I want to be a part of that celebration and positive impact that collective energy has!

  • In the year 273, the Christian church selected Dec. 25th to represent the birthday of Jesus.    Personally, I think the man Jesus Christ was trying to teach us that we are all Spirit/God/Source Energy birthed into human form; and Christmas can be a reminder to us of this, and of a teacher who tried to teach us that we are all children of God in this way.   As I understand it, he also tried to teach us about the value of giving and receiving.  It really does feel good, doesn't it?  I think it's in our souls.

  • Before this, for thousands of years, this time was celebrated in cultures the world over  as the winter solstice and a celebration of light and rebirth of the sun at the beginning of the solar year.  In old Europe, it was known as Yule, from the Norse, Jul, meaning wheel, referring to the circle and continuity of life.  Many of today's Christmas traditions have roots in ancient Pagan customs with a basis in the solstice celebrations of nature, its cycles, and the continuity and circle of life.  The customs of feasting together with friends and family and of exchanging gifts are as old as time.  I now have a renewed appreciation for the holiday decorations and other traditions, and for celebrating throughout an extended season, versus just one day.
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New Possibilities for YOU:

One of the most basic tenets I do my best to live by is to focus on what you want/like/can do, versus what you don't want/don't like/can't do.  It's the starting point towards desired change. This is why I took my time to reflect and even do some research.  It has opened up a lot of good-feeling opportunities for me!

So, what about the holiday season or solstice is really meaningful to you?  Whether it be Christmas, the solstice, Chanukah, or whatever holiday, how could you imbue what's meaningful to you into the weeks ahead, even in small ways?  Take some time to get clear on this for yourself; and be true to yourself.  Once you've done that, I'd love to hear some of your thoughts and ideas!

What gifts can you give others just in your presence?  I think this one is big.

From this way of thinking, I've thought of a number of ways I'll be bringing my Spirit into this season, some of which you're invited to!  I hope you'll join me.

Wishing you a season filled with the spirit of peace, love and joy.  Remember, it's up to you!

Warm heart,
Ann


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