The other day one of our program members was sharing with me how she doesn’t want to have to “work” anymore using her strategies for managing her moods and thoughts, and to manifest what she wants. Even though they consistently help her to shift to feeling good and she now feels good more often than not, and she has also now manifested an amazing job that she loves (which she didn’t believe was possible before she started our program); she just didn’t want to have to use her strategies anymore.
We spoke for over an hour, as there are many angles to approach this complex topic. For now, I want to share one aspect of it that I think you’ll find as valuable as she did.
It’s my belief that we didn’t come into physical form to feel good 100% of the time. Yes, we are joy seekers; but the greatest joy we came for is in the process of creating and becoming more. When you’re in tune to this, and you have the strategies in place to do it well, there can be a thrill to knowing that your “becoming more” is in process and in having the expectation that it will happen in due time.
Your life leads you to your next level of growth; and recurring feelings that don’t feel so good and the recycled inner stories creating them are your inner guidance “calling” you to the steps you need to take to become more. They’re like the seeds for your next level of growth and for what’s possible for you!
This is why I’ll get excited and happy for you when you call me and tell me about your challenges, or how you’re unhappy with this or that. I’ll hear what you’re being called to do. I’ll see and know what’s possible for you!
What do you enjoy doing that some people consider work? Maybe you love gardening, or sewing, or renovating, or playing a particular sport. You enjoy the process of the creating as well as the end result, right?
I invite you to look at your life the same way. Instead of thinking of personal growth as work, focus on it as a creative process. How exciting that you have this opportunity to expand, to create, and to become and have more!
Expecting to do so without using effective strategies is like expecting to win a game without playing. Notice, you don’t “work” a game, do you? You play it!
So, do you have to work hard to be happy and get what you want? My answer is: only if you look at it that way.
New Possibilities for You
- Do you have an area in your life in which you recurrently struggle or have undesirable feelings?
- What desires are being created by those feelings? What new level of personal growth is this calling you towards?
- Do you keep squashing those feelings, or live with them day in and day out with resigned acceptance or by settling for less?
- What strategies do you have for creating your breakthrough, for playing and winning at this game of being human? Use them!
- If you don’t have effective strategies, please consider participating in our New Possibilities Fundamentals Program. We’ve got pretty much all the fundamental strategies you’ll need. Think about it. You take the care to learn strategies for being effective in other areas of your life. What would your life be like with effective strategies for creating, expanding, and experiencing greater harmony, happiness and success? We would love to partner with you in this adventure!
“I feel more relaxed about my future. I feel more confident that I can be happy and that things will work out well. I have greater faith in the universe and really am enjoying that I don’t know what will happen. It’s fun to realize that I have the power and skills to take responsibility for taking steps in new directions. The world truly is full of choices and possibilities.
I now regularly remind myself that I create my every moment. All of the resources I need are available, ready to be combined in an infinite number of ways… like a painter has infinite possibilities in combining paint molecules on a canvas…according to any unique vision he/she is inspired to see.
I learned and grew more during the few months I spent attending Ann and Mark’s New Possibilities group coaching program than I learned through prior years of therapy. Ann and Mark offer you tools and techniques to positively restructure your thinking and your life. They believe in your power to let your true self shine and you will too!”
There’s no need to continue with the same struggles in your life. Please don’t put off the happiness you deserve any longer. Let your happiness and well-being be a priority, and from that all other good things you desire will flow to you.
E-mail me at AnnIde@NewPossibilitiesCoaching.com to arrange for a phone call to see if one of our private or group coaching programs is a fit for you.